"Because we Americans have been weaned on indiscipline, indecency, and sensuality, we are living in a modern Corinth. In our society it is very difficult for anyone to grow to young adulthood without suffering some damage in the sex department of his personality." David Seamands

That is so true.

Another thought... You cannot really unconditionally love others when you need to prove your own self-worth. It may look as if you are loving them, when actually you are just using them to reassure yourself that you're ok.